when the pain is too hard to bear...

dearest cuzzy tis entry is for u...

U've went through a great ordeal that is impossible to swallow...

the loss is not someting one can accept or forget....

but remem gal, you're not alone...

yr loved ones are going to be with you to see you through this dark period of time

but tat's not the issue, cos no matter who is there by your side

only you can bring yourself to move on...

but it takes time...heartaches need time to heal and recoup

I sincerely hope you'll emerge even stronger from all that you've gone through

and accept god's plan that was in store for u...

Recover fast dear, physically & mentally...it would not be easy but is essential

to see my former bubbly, active and cheerful cuz back to herself

remem we're here for u babe! & we love u! ")


When you accept what has happened, you aren't acknowledging that it is okay but rather, that you know you must find a way to keep growing and living-even if you don't feel like it...[Don't let] grief be your constant companion...Realize that your grief is born out of unconditional love for your child and rejoice in that love which will never end... Embracing life again is not a sign that you have stopped missing your baby, but an example of a love that is eternal. - WISCONSIN PERSPECTIVES NEWSLETTER, SPRING 1989,